About every year or so, stuff happens and think it is time to reconsider everything. Usually, after all is said and done I don’t actually do much different, but sometimes it leads to some minor changes in how I putter around.
I’ve tried socializing at singles events, I’ve given up on that and tried just socializing at regular events (making especial effort not to try to find a girlfriend–its important to sometimes go to an event without having to focus trying to find someone special). And I’ve been having mixed success.
Going to all events, all the time–is a good idea. Just getting out of the house can help prevent depression, even if it is a trip to a spectator event, or a social event where I don’t actually connect with anyone.